I heard these words of the Buddha one time when the Lord was living in the vicinity of Savatthi at the Anathapindika Monastery in the Jeta Grove. Late at night, a deva appeared whose light and beauty made the whole Jeta Grove shine radiantly. After paying respects to the Buddha, the deva asked him a question in the form of a verse:

“Many gods and men are eager to know what are the greatest blessings which bring about a peaceful and happy life. Please, Tathagata, will you teach us?”

(This is the Buddha’s answer):

“Not to be associated with the foolish ones, to live in the company of wise people, honoring those who are worth honoring — this is the greatest happiness.

“To live in a good environment, to have planted good seeds, and to realize that you are on the right path — this is the greatest happiness.

“To have a chance to learn and grow, to be skillful in your profession or craft, practicing the precepts and loving speech — this is the greatest happiness.

“To be able to serve and support your parents, to cherish your own family, to have a vocation that brings you joy — this is the greatest happiness.

“To live honestly, generous in giving, to offer support to relatives and friends, living a life of blameless conduct — this is the greatest happiness.

“To avoid unwholesome actions, not caught by alcoholism or drugs, and to be diligent in doing good things — this is the greatest happiness.

“To be humble and polite in manner, to be grateful and content with a simple life, not missing the occasion to learn the Dharma — this is the greatest happiness.

“To persevere and be open to change, to have regular contact with monks and nuns, and to fully participate in Dharma discussions — this is the greatest happiness.

“To live diligently and attentively, to perceive the Noble Truths, and to realize Nirvana — this is the greatest happiness.

“To live in the world with your heart undisturbed by the world, with all sorrows ended, dwelling in peace — this is the greatest happiness.

“For he or she who accomplishes this, unvanquished wherever she goes, always he is safe and happy — happiness lives within oneself.”